Just to warn you...this is a LONG post! Our trip to Utah can be broken down into two events:
first, my arrival on Tuesday (April 15th) and subsequent stay with my sister
Jessica, Scott, and their kids; and
second, Andrew's arrival the following Wednesday (April 23rd) for his graduation.
1. Crash Course in Motherhood
The reason for my early arrival in Utah was to babysit Jessica and Scott's three children while they headed off to Ohio for a house hunting trip from Wednesday until Sunday night. They didn't leave until Wednesday around noon so I had some time to learn the ropes and read the "owner's manuals" Jessica had prepared for each of the children (Ethan-4, Grace-3, and Sophie-1).
Luckily Jessica prepared some notes for me on things like mealtime, snacktime, bedtime, playtime, etcetera; and also luckily for me they have pretty rigid bedtimes and are good about going to sleep. When I originally signed up for the gig I didn't think they would be leaving me with Sophie because she kind of has some special needs...aka, she's allergic to almost everything and she suffers from an acute case of separation (from her mom) anxiety. But no worries, Jessica also prepped me on emergency situations for Sophie in case she had an allergic reaction to something. She showed me how to use an oxygen mask contraption thing and also a special shot I have to give her in her side. She also left me the insurance card in case we had to make any trips to the hospital for such reactions.
Everything went a lot better than I thought it would with Sophie. She was just a little clingy and I had to hold her most of the day and she gets kind of fussy only having like 5 things to choose from that she can eat. Grace did ok but she can be a little moody and she wet her pants 3 of the 5 mornings I was there. I guess 60 % isn't that bad. Grace also requests interesting meal choices. One day she wanted a ketchup sandwich, which Jessica warned me about. After I made it for her and set it in front of her I proceeded to watch her open it (the piece of bread folded in half with ketchup all over the inside) and lick the ketchup off, take one bite, and then proclaim she's done. Ethan is pretty well-behaved and asks about a million questions a day.
All in all I would say things went really well and we had a fun time. My main complaint would be that I was really tired. The kids woke up around 6 every morning and most nights I didn't get much sleep because my little brother Freddie spent the night a few times with his friend Levi and I could hear the TV blaring until all hours of the night. Add not much sleep to an already fatigued pregnant body and cramps and you get one tired lady.
I tried to do one outing a day with the kids to occupy our time:
Wednesday we went to Fat Cat's, the local bowling alley, and my sister Laura who works there let us bowl a game for free.
Thursday we went to the park and got ice cream afterwards at the Creamery compliments of leftover money on Laura and Freddie's BYU meal cards.
Friday morning got off to an interesting start. Ethan and Grace woke up around 4:30 in the morning thinking that it was time to wake up for the day! Umm, I don't think so! So I had them climb in bed with me and they actually slept until about 8. I'm not gonna lie, that was pretty nice just having to take care of Sophie from about 6-8. Later that day we went to the grocery store and bought bread to feed the ducks but it was kind of overcast so we just went home and made a cake. Ethan insisted that my baby needed a birthday cake.
Saturday we went to Chuck E. Cheese's and later to the duck pond to feed the ducks.
Sunday we went to Levi Gruwell's ward for his missionary farewell kind of talk. It was quite the challenge going to a student ward where everyone is relatively quiet and then we march in with three little kids! Luckily Freddie, Laura, and Jessica Gruwell were there to help out. After church we all headed back to "my place" for a makeshift dinner. We rummaged through the cabinets and put together a pretty good little meal. I should have taken a picture of that! If our mom's could have seen us they would have been so proud of us all having dinner together on a Sunday afternoon just like the old days.
We also rented Alvin and the chipmunks I think on Thursday and the kids really loved it; they probably watched it about 8 times. And sorry Jess, Grace decided that she, Ethan and Sophie will be Simon, Alvin, and Theodore (respectively) for Halloween. Oh, also sorry to break it to you Jess, but we kind of broke your no TV rule a few times and filled some of our time with TV and the Wii. It was the only way I could keep some sanity.
Another way I kept my sanity was to set up a reward system for the kids. I told them I would take them to Chuck E. Cheese's on Saturday if they were good. I started them both out with 4 tokens and I told them they could earn more if they were good/helpful, but they could also have some taken away. Here's a picture of our little poster:

Needless to say, Ethan thrives on a reward system and Grace struggles with it a little bit.
Here are some pictures from Chuck E. Cheese's and feeding the ducks.




I really should have taken more pictures the other days too. I guess that is one thing I learned about motherhood while babysitting: take more pictures and write things down so you can remember what you do with the kids. My list of things I learned about motherhood will just have to wait for a later post, this one is getting way too long.
Jessica and Scott got back Sunday night after the kids were in bed. Because their basement had flooded the day before I arrived, I didn't have a room of my own once they returned so I slept with Grace in her bed. She moves around a lot and once again for the next couple of days I was woken up around 6 by sweet little Grace's voice.
On Monday I was free! Andrew said I could treat myself to a mini-makeover so I went and got my hair done and my nails done and I went shopping for maternity clothes with Jessica. I'm just about to the point where my normal clothes don't really fit the way I want them to. I found a couple of cute tops at Gap Maternity all for under 10 bucks. I think that's probably why Andrew wasn't too worried about me going shopping -- I mainly buy off of sales racks and I can't spend more than like an hour at the mall. In return for my babysitting, and just because she's a nice sister, Jessica let me go through her maternity wardrobe and sent me home with a ton of clothes to borrow for my pregnancy. She also got me the cutest little things from Gymboree (she's sort of an addict).
2. Andrew's GraduationAndrew finally arrived in Utah on Wednesday with his grandparents, and his parents flew in a little later that night. His sister Jessica and her fiance also came up from Las Vegas for the occasion.
Andrew technically finished at BYU in December, but they don't have an actual graduation ceremony until April, so that is what we went for. Andrew's family is really big on the actual graduation ceremony's so it was important to them that he "walked". If it was up to us we probably would have just stayed home.
On Thursday we went to lunch at
Tucano's, the Brazilian all-you-can-eat meat place. Andrew had promised some of his former roommates that when he got engaged he would take them there so while we were back in Provo he finally made it up to them (only about a year late). Afterwards we went to the big university commencement and Elder Bednar spoke.
Here we are taking some pictures in front of the cougar at the stadium.


Friday morning was Andrew's college convocation where he actually walked across the stage with other kids from his major.
Here's Andrew walking across the stage

Here we are at the Marriott Center


Notice the Y in the background...

Afterwards we went to Market Street Grill, which is where we had our wedding reception. After our meal, we got some chocolate cake and strawberry shortcake to go. It was the same kind that was served at our wedding, and it was just as delicious!
Here's Andrew before the cake got annihilated

We also couldn't leave Provo without buying a BYU onesie for the little baby

Go Cougars!
Saturday we all flew home which was kind of bittersweet. I was sad to leave Provo and not to be around my family, but at the same time I was anxious to get home and just be back in my own apartment with Andrew. We had a really good trip and I'm so thankful we got to spend so much time with family!